The State I Didn’t Expect to Love

I grew up in the South believing the only thing that came out of Idaho was a potato.

Not just any potato-a golden russet, baked and buttered and practical. Idaho, in my imagination, was agricultural and flat and forgettable. I had never met anyone from there. Never heard anyone vacation there. It felt like one of those states people passed over without comment-and I assumed that silence meant it wasn’t worth talking about.

Now I suspect the silence is intentional.

Some places stay quiet to protect themselves.

I first tasted Idaho in 2018, during our chaotic cross-country RV saga. It was a brief, accidental stop. An RV park. A long northern evening where the sun lingered until nearly 10 PM, stretching gold across everything it touched. And when if finally slipped away, the sky performed like it had been holding back all day.

Even then-in the middle of a hellacious, overstuffed itinerary-Idaho felt like the crowned jewel.

It left me curious.

Years later, I was sitting in the Bozeman Yellowstone International Airport waiting on a flight back to Nashville when an older woman leaned over and whispered about a natural hot spring near Salmon. Looking back, I’m not entirely sure she wasn’t an angel. There was something conspiratorial in her tone, as if she was entrusting me with classified information.

We listened.

In late August of 2025, my husband and I loaded up and drove twenty-nine hours west. We stopped halfway in Nebraska both directions, stretching the miles like taffy, determined not to repeat my old mistakes.

And then we arrived.

The first time we saw the Sawtooth Range, I felt almost disoriented. How had no one told us? How had we never heard people rave about this place? The jagged peaks looked holy. The rivers ran clear and cold and alive. It was the kind of beauty that makes you instinctively lower your voice.

Sacred is the only word that feels honest.

We made the trek with our three month old(at the time) Texas heeler, our sweet Davie Jane-all paws and curiosity and joy. She learned the mountain air before she learned much else about the world.

We stayed in a small trapper cabin outside Salmon. No crowds. No lines. No rush. No curated photo ops.

Just space.

Serene, unbothered space.

The people were disarmingly kind-the kind of kindness that isn’t performative, just practiced. We hiked. We soaked in hot springs tucked into quiet folds of the land. We ate well. My husband carried his watercolors everywhere, trying to translate the blues and greens onto paper. He trout fished in the cold rivers that required patience and stillness-two things Idaho seems to insist upon.

At night, the silence wasn’t empty. It was layered-crickets, birds settling, the soft hum of wind moving through trees. We’d sit at the cabin trying to take in every second, as if we could store it somewhere safe.

The hardest part of Idaho wasn’t the drive.

It was leaving.

I understand now why it isn’t talked about loudly. Some places don’t beg for attention. They don’t brand themselves aggressively or fight for your bucket list. They simply exist-steady and magnificent-waiting for those willing to take the long way.

Idaho isn’t a flyover state.

It’s a linger state.

Make room in your heart for it.

Just…maybe don’t tell too many people.

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